As an adult there is probably no greater challenge than being stuck in the middle. On the one hand, as parents we are dealing with our children as they themselves are advancing into adulthood. They are beginning their careers, and soon their own families. On the other hand, we are dealing with our own parents as they advance in years with a natural decline in physical health, and perhaps even their cognition. In some cases, that natural, gradual decline from aging may be accelerated by an illness or injury. The mechanics of dealing with these issues is complicated by our evolving roles, and all of the emotions involved.
I will leave a discussion on the challenge of helping our children advance into adulthood to those more qualified! On my blog, I hope to provide you with some information and insights from both my professional experience as a nurse and health care executive, and my personal experience with family and friends. Of course, no two people or families are alike. This information is general and needs to be individualized to your own situation. I cannot stress enough that the family member who is the focus of this planning needs to be respected and included in the decision making process to the degree they are competent and able.
If you have questions or reflections on what I write, please feel free to send them to me. Based on feedback I receive, I often make additions or changes to my posts to benefit others who may have the same questions. I hope this information is helpful to you as you navigate these challenging waters.
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